Language Tricks to Improve Student’s Confidence

As teachers we always want our learners to grow in confidence. I sometimes struggle with this when I have to show my students where they need to improve their skills. This week I’ll share a couple of simple language tricks that have made a world of difference to helping me encourage children’s self esteem and confidence.

The first teaching tip is the use of the word “AND” instead of the word “BUT”. Pick any sentence where you would need to use the word “BUT”. For example:

“You were quiet, BUT you did not complete your work.”

Now, replace the word “BUT” with “AND”

“You were quiet, AND you did not complete your work.”

Somehow, when we use the word “BUT” we decrease or even negate the value of the good thing that the child did. And, when we use the word “AND” we acknowledge the good behavior, in this case being quiet, while merely stating an observation that the work is not complete.

Another communication trick that is very useful is to add the word “YET” at the end of an “I CAN’T…” statement. Consider:

“I can’t understand this lesson.” vs “I can’t understand this lesson YET.”

Encouraging students to use the word YET helps them to build up their confidence and increase their belief in their abilities.

I’ve found these simple tricks useful to me in many ways in school and at home. Try them out and let me know how they work for you.

My question for you this week:

• What language tips or ideas do you use to help increase your students’ confidence?